Writing from Northwest Indiana:
I have to admit, change can be a hard thing to get used to at times. It’s hard to believe sometimes that we have not been in this part of the country, the part I grew up in, since last June…just a few days short of ten months. Our lives have genuinely changed since we have last been at Fairhaven. Looking back, I can recollect exactly when we first started noticing all of the change…
For my entire senior year of college, I still felt like I was in college. Yes, I knew soon after graduating I would be married, and moving almost 700 miles away to the foreign state of Pennsylvania; but I never realized how much would be different–and at that, a GOOD different. Even up until the point I was waiting at the altar for the door to open so I could catch a glimpse of my beautiful bride, everything still felt the same. Nothing was changing yet. Just another event in the life of Dustin Speckhals. We said our vows, walked out of the auditorium, shook hands, cut the cake, took a few pictures…still the same. The change hit me, though, at an interesting time.
After our pictures were done at the wedding, we walked back to the dining room where the reception was, and I told Andrea that I was going to carry her through the crowd (yes, I admit it was a show!). So I picked her up, carried her through the cheering and jubilant wedding crowd, and into the limo that was going to take us to Chicago. We got into the vehicle, the driver shut the door, and the change came. The driver pulled away, and off we went. It was finally here! Life was completely different after that. All of the family I loved, some of the best friends a man could ask for, the best college teachers and mentors–they all faded into the distance. Soon the steeple of Fairhaven faded away too, and our new life began.
Even after we came back from our honeymoon to pack our stuff up for the move in a few days, so much seemed different. It was just like God was moving us right along to our new life together! It never seemed quite like home during those packing day. At least for me, it was easy to move.
Now, ten months later, we return for a visit, and ironically, not much has changed! Sure my parents live here now, there a few new people, new family, and a new status (we have a “real life” now–no more college!), but so much hasn’t changed! It seems like home again…not our home, but a place where we love to be, and believe it or not, were people love to see us! The best part of all is that some of the things that are different from when we were here are great changes! After all of that, though…here are some things I have noticed that are different or the same:
- College students still sit in the same places in the auditorium
- All of the verses of the songs are still sung…maybe a little bit slower tempo than our church too.
- Same ol’ dating couples–minus a few of us who got married
- Tom Almanza is still himself
- Lindsey still wonders why there is no band or PE during candy sale
- NW Indiana still looks as dilapidated as before
- A great new mother-in-law
- Two new houses for us to visit (Leslie and Murdock side)
- I can hold my sweetheart’s hand walking down the path
- A few folks that were struggling spiritually when we left are making HUGE steps for God!
- The kids are getting taller, including by little brother and sister
It is great to be back to all of the memories and people, and we look forward to the rest of our short stay here.